Heart Speak
“Its hard to wait for someone who has no plan to arrived, Its hard to understand someone who never explains but, its harder to livewithout that someone who makes hard things worthy”.
It was a forwarded quotation from my phone’s inbox, its just that somehow, it captured my attention, and it makes me think for a while, so now, I just want to give my idea regarding this quote.
Well as for me, its not just a question of love but also a question of dreams, ambitions, plans and priorities, for there are people who would set aside their feelings for their dreams, well i thinks thats true although its really hard to accept for someone who trully love.
If im going to ask you, “will you still wait for someone who has no plan to arrived?”
My answer? ofcourse not!!! why would you wait? if i really love that person and i dont want to loose her, then why should i wait here if she no longer has plan to go back? i wont waist time here, i will follow her for sure.
Value that feeling, keep it because, that is more than enough reason to follow her, especially when you feel that she also has the feeling for you, dont feel bad if you are not her priority, for not going back, it doesnt mean that she doesnt love you, its just that maybe there are dreams and plans that already placed and established before you came into her life. More often happened to those who dream not for her own life but for her family.
“Its hard to understand someone who never explains”. Trully it is. How can you understand someone who doesnt what to speak? or doesnt want to explain? Hello? can you do a sign language at least??
“But its harder to livewithout that someone who makes hard things worthy”.How will i explain this? we always say that the harder it gets, the more we value things. Hardships has always been rembered in our mind, reason why we say that we value it more. Question is, “Would it still be worthy if after all the hardships you have, you got nothing in return?”. I always say, look at the brighter side, say for example you love a person, and she ’s not yet ready to be in a relationship, we often say i can wait, tll time comes that you can say you love me too. You know what? you should think first before telling that person that you can wait, you must be sure first of your true feelings. You must be ready of the consequences that she might not learn to love but instead somebody else, you must be ready, for she might not give back the love you have for her, would still be worthy waiting?
I’m not telling you to stop, for i myself been waiting for for someone i love, i have no assurance as well, but i think, no matter what, it will still be worthy. Actualy, its a risk to be in that place but, its all a matter of choice and how you look at it.
For me, i dont want to have any regrets later on, that is why i choose to wait, yes, its still a risk of what if she might not learn to love me? but, what if she learns to love me too? what if she realize that she loves me and she wants me?.. In anyway, for me it would still be worthy. Coz i learn from it as well, atleast i have given my best..If I win? then thank you and i would be very much happy that after all the hardships.. i gain, and if not.. then sorry for me, well thats the way it goes, either you win or win still.. coz it may not be a happy ending for me but atleast i have learned the feeling and experienced it.. and that i had given my best trying..
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